barbados

rihanna super bowl

roc nation

apple music

rihanna

colin kaepernick

fenty

jay-z

After six long years of anticipation, Rihanna will perform the coveted Super bowl half-time show in February 2023. She declined an invitation to perform at the 2019 Super Bowl out of solidarity with Colin Kaepernick.
“Rihanna is a generational talent, a woman of humble beginnings who has surpassed expectations at every turn,” said Jay-Z in a statement; the hip hop artist’s entertainment agency, Roc Nation, is an executive producer of the half-time show. “A person born on the small island of Barbados who became one of the most prominent artists ever. Self-made in business and entertainment.”
The news broke after the Barbados singer, posted a photo via her instagram page on the 25th of September 2022. The image shows her hand holding an NFL football which created a huge buzz among fans. Many were left confused while others were afraid to het their hops up.
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“This better not be a 14 minute add [sic] of Fenty beauty,” one person tweeted in response to her post.
Soon after the post the NFL and Apple Music cleared up any confusion. “It’s on,” Apple Music tweeted it. “Rihanna will take the stage for the first ever Apple Music Super Bowl halftime show. On 2.12.23,” The NFL retweeted it.
Fan were quick to celebrate with one fan tweeting “I’ m at the Super Bowl if Rihanna there, Like for real.” the person said. Another tweeted “so excited,” another fan stated We’ve been starving to hear Riri’s vocals for over five years now. Rihanna is back to the dominion which has been hers, and will always be hers !!!”
So Excited! #SuperBowl pic.twitter.com/6dcmXyqinr
— Vin (@WhoisVindictive) September 25, 2022
We’ve been starving to hear Riri’s vocals for over five years now.
Rihanna is back to the dominion which has been hers, and will always be hers !!!
CANNOT EFFING WAIT#rihanna #superbowl #rihannasuperbowl pic.twitter.com/lmlTLdfO2m
— Pulkit Srivastava (@pulkitsrvstva) September 25, 2022

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Fans react to Rihanna Super Bowl halftime show announcement

Ultra SA returns back to South Africa, clubbers last had their best night under the skies before the Covid-19 outbreak, in February 2020.
After two years of South Africans being restricted, it has been announced that the Electronic Dance Music (EDM) will take place in both the Mother City and the Gauteng Province.
Dates have been issued respectively:
- Cape Town: 10 March 2023 – Kenilworth Racecourt
- Johannesburg: 11 March 2023 -Expo Centre, Nasrec
Ticket sales are now on sale.
Cape Town general admission tier one has already been sold out as well as VIP tier 1 .
Johannesburg general admission tier one and two have been sold out including the VIP tier one and two.
VVIP tier one has been sold out already for the Johannesburg EDM event.
The best local and international DJs are forever trusted to take over the Ultra SA stage.
Many clubbers are so excited for the return of the EDM extravaganza, they came flocking to twitter sharing their excitement.
South Africa’s largest electronic music festival returns in 2023 🇿🇦
Friday, 10 March – Kenilworth Racecourse, CPT
Saturday, 11 March – Expo Centre, Nasrec, JHB
Ticket sales open on Friday, 23 September only at https://t.co/cladyK8z59#UltraSA2023 presented by #SmirnoffStorm pic.twitter.com/5qg9UTCnwy
— Ultra South Africa (@UltraSA) September 21, 2022
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Finally!! 😭🔥 pic.twitter.com/kAVoU6WOry
— Shaheed Rajab (@_sketedavidson) September 21, 2022
@RufusDuSol this would be the perfect opportunity to explore South Africa, don’t you think😭😭😭
— RanWan stan💕 (@nonkumvelase) September 21, 2022

Ultra SA to return in 2023

south africa

capitec

capitec connect

gerrie fourie

South African digital bank Capitec launched yet another Mobile Virtual Network Operator (MVNO), with Capitec Connect promising to bring down the cost of communication. A new service from Capitec, which came from no where to become one of SA’s biggest banks, Capitec Connect is described as a “simplified prepaid solution for voice, data and SMS”.
As an MVNO, Capital Connect provides cellular services to its clients without owning the network infrastructure. Instead, it uses the Cell C network, which has long provided the service to MVNOs in South Africa. At R4.50 per 100 Megabytes or R45 per Gigabyte, Capitec Connect data is apparently on average 50% below the normal market price, and the rates remain flat whether clients buy small or large quantities. The data also never expires provided the SIM is used at least once in 6 months, which means that Capitec clients never lose what they paid for.
Gerrie Fourie, Chief Executive Officer of Capitec, says, “South Africans have been complaining about the cost of data. It’s expensive and complicated. Bundle pricing, off-peak and peak rates, and the fact that your data expired are all things that make no sense. We’re changing this by giving our clients access to a mobile solution that is simpler to understand, much more affordable and can be recharged easily on our digital channels.”
“It is through partnerships such as the one between Capitec and Cell C that we can make a major difference in bridging the digital divide that still exists in our country and we’re very pleased to be part of the solution that enables South Africans to access a digital lifestyle that can truly change their world,” says Cell C chief executive officer, Douglas Craigie Stevenson.
Two of South Africa’s most common hashtags have long been #DataMustFall and #DataAsseblief, demonstrating the nation’s cry for the lowering of exorbitant data costs.
Regulations proposed in 2017 by ICASA and the National Consumer Commissioner advocated for data to remain valid for at least three years. These proposed regulations were later removed from the charter and replaced with more lenient provisions. Capitec is now leading the change by addressing this issue head-on.
Capitec Connect is a Mobile Virtual Network Operator (MVNO) service on the Cell C network. An MVNO provides cellular services to its clients without owning the network infrastructure. SIM cards are available to clients at all Capitec branches and clients can get up to 5 SIM cards linked to their profile, which makes it easy to give access to data and airtime to family members.
Once the SIM is activated, data, minutes, SMS’ and airtime can be topped up on the Capitec banking app, using *120*3279# or internet banking. Calls are charged at the low flat rate of 90c per minute, while SMSs cost only 25c. Airtime never expires, provided the SIM is used once every 6 months.
Fourie concludes, “It’s in our DNA to do what is best for our clients. We continue to change the game in banking by asking ‘why?’ and making it simple to help people live better. Now we believe we can also change the game in the way people connect.”

Capitec bank launches prepaid data that never expires

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instagram

somizi

It is no secret that Somizi loves everything ‘over the top’. The Living The Dream superstar has proven this over the years that he has been in showbiz.
From his eye-catching hairstyles and bright hair colours to his breathtaking outfits, his 50th birthday looks like it will be no different.
Taking to Instagram, Somizi shared a poster of the Golden Jubilee celebration, a concert that he will be hosting to celebrate his big milestone.
The South African media personality, “Somgaga” is set to kick start 2023 with this much anticipated jubilee to celebrate him turning 50 years old and also celebrating over four decades in the entertainment industry. The Idols SA judge has called all his friends in the arts industry (music, theatre, television, sports, politics) to join him on stage on the 28th January 2023 at the Sun City Superbowl in front of thousands of his supporters watching live.
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He stated that he does not want his 50th birthday to be “just an ordinary day” and says that the event will be a concert to remember for years to come.
His fans are extremely excited and cannot wait to attend the concert.
“We are definitely coming through for this” a supporter commented on his Instagram post. “Wooow!! What a time to be alive! I can only imagine the Extra ordinary dzaganga!!! Kuzoba lit,” another social media user added.
Supporters cannot purchase any tickets to the Golden Jubilee celebration yet, supporters wishing to attend this celebration are urged to stay tuned for more details.

Somizi’s 50th extraordinary birthday celebration

prudential investment

Financial freedom and not being dependent on parents is what many young adults strive for. Fresh out of school and ready to take over the world. Bagging your first job, and finally receiving that first pay-check, what do you do? Your 20s are characterised as very crucial years to make life changing financial habits.
Here are five money mistakes to avoid in your 20s.
Spending more than you make
According to Prudential Investment managers, living within your means should become your motto. It is imperative to have a lifestyle that correlates with the money that you make. Spending more than you make is not sustainable and can result in one drowning in debt once the bills start to pile up.
Not saving up for retirement immediately
Tshepang Makhetha, a dispute resolution official states that the usual retirement age is between 60 and 65 years. When you bag your first job at the age of 25 years old, retirement is the last thing on your mind. Which should not be the case, avoid falling into the trap that retirement is far and therefore you will start saving up for it at a later stage or when you earn more money. With the little that you earn, start saving up towards your retirement so that your retirement years can be as comfortable as you want them to be Khwezi Jackson Benefit Consultant at 10x Investments added.
Impulsive spending
According to Khwezi Jackson Benefit Consultant at 10x Investments, if it is not in your budget, do not purchase it. Many fall into the trap of spending their money impulsively, which may have a negative effect on their monthly budget. Should you be an impulsive spender, allocate money in your monthly budget for impulsive spending.
Not setting up an emergency fund
According to Prudential Investment managers, emergencies and unforeseen circumstances can happen to anyone, at any time. This is where this fund becomes handy. You can use money you have set aside specifically for emergencies, to avoid unnecessary credit.
Living off credit
It becomes easy to lean towards credit when it seems like you are barely making it through your salary. In your 20s, it becomes crucial to have financial disciple, this will ensure that you keep and maintain a healthy relationship with credit, Deep Patel entrepreneur, marketer and investor added.

5 Money mistakes to avoid in your 20s

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faith nketsi

nketsi

South African reality TV star Faith Nketsi took to Twitter to vent about her frustration about her mother’s gardener, who allegedly broke into her house over the weekend.
Faith shared that the gardener and his family stayed on the property she brought for her mother along with the gardener.
“I have land or house next door to the house I bought for my mom. The gardener and his wife and baby stayed there for over a year. We fed them, clothed them, my mom also their
babysitter, and still paid them a salary. Today they broke into my mom’s house and robbed her and went back to Malawi,” Faith tweeted.
The Have Faith star said they watched the ordeal via camera installed in her mother’s house.
I have land/hous next door 2 the house I bought 4my mom.The gardener and his wife and baby stayed ther 4 over a year. We fed them, clothed them, my mom even babysat their baby and still payed them a salary. 2day they broke into my moms house and robed her and went back to Malawi
— faith Nketsi Njilo (@_faith_nketsi) [September 25, 2022]
“Luckily, we have cameras in the house but we can’t do anything with the footage because they are gone. My mom treated them like her own and trusted them. My mom is so heartbroken,” said Faith.
She said the gardener and his family were considered part of the family and even appeared on her reality show.
“I slept peacefully at night in my marital home knowing that he was next door looking after her[mother],” she said.
Luckily we have cameras in the house but we can’t do anything with the footage because they are gone. My mom treated them like her own and trusted them. My mom is so heartbroken💔 They celebrated everything with us as part of the family… I mean they even on havefaith🏽♀️.
— faith Nketsi Njilo (@_faith_nketsi) [September 25, 2022]
Also see : ‘I still love him…’ – Faith Nketsi unfazed by hubby’s fraud allegations

Faith Nketsi is shattered after gardener broke into her mother’s house

multichoice

king goodwill zwellithini

shaka ilembe

nomzamo mbatha

shaka

wiseman mncube

ntando zondi

thembinkosi mthembu

mangosuthu buthelezi

ushaka ilembe

queen nandi

A series that was being filmed for six years began earlier in the year.
The upcoming historical series drama Shaka Ilembe is scheduled for release in 2023.
The trailer was released on Mzantsi Magic (DSTV 161) to show audience what they need to look forward to.
Shaka Ilembe tells the story of the making of the iconic African King, with iterations from his early childhood through adulthood. Before the commencement of production, consultations occurred among historians, academics, and family descendants, including the late King Goodwill Zwellithini and Prince Mangosuthu Buthelezi.
Key actors in the series are Lemogang Tsipa (the adult king) and Ntando Zondi (the boy king). Other key cast includes Nomzamo Mbatha (who plays Queen Nandi, King Shaka’s mother), Thembinkosi Mthembu (who plays King Dingiswayo) and Wiseman Mncube (who plays King Zwide).
A play was showcased at the DSTV delicious Festival.
Bayede wena weZulu, Ushaka ILembe took to the stage we know that #ShakaILembeMzansi is African storytelling at it best as we tell stories of our greats.” wrote Multichoice group
Bayede wena weZulu, Ushaka ILembe took to the stage we know that #ShakaILembeMzansi is African storytelling at it best as we tell stories of our greats. #MCGShowcase pic.twitter.com/C7M4uh82ud
— MultiChoice Group (@MultiChoiceGRP) September 22, 2022
The talented Mduduzi Mabaso was also part of the crew that show cased the Shaka Ilembe at the DSTV delicious festival.
Mduduzi Mabaso is really talented🏾 #ShakaiLembeMzansi #DStvDeliciousFestival2022 pic.twitter.com/rVYBL3ymDV
— Stolen Chanel (@Zoemkoena) September 24, 2022
Many are excited and really cannot wait for the series.
Can’t wait to see our story being told to the world, from our own Soil.#ShakaiLembeMzansi pic.twitter.com/lriHLjtvPr
— 🏳️🌈 G R A C I O U S ® ☺ (@_Thembalihle_) September 24, 2022

Epic historical drama trailer released: Shaka Ilembe 2023

thailand

chu suwannapha

solange

liam tomlin

mati diop

guo pei

solange knowles

bailey

Nontando Mposo
September 27, 2022
Chu Suwannapha is the first Pan-African designer to partner with luxury French Cognac brand LOUIS XIII on its Believe in Time campaign.
Chu Suwannapha’s collaboration with the luxury Cognac brand follows Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter and visual artist Solange Knowles’s. For her partnership with LOUIS XIII, Solange composed an original piece of music in collaboration with Chinese couture designer Guo Pei and French-Senegalese director Mati Diop, who won the Cannes Festival Grand Prix for the film Atlantics.
fashion Meet the stylish crowd at Global Citizen Festival, Accra Read more The partnership was recently announced at Liam Tomlin’s whiskey bar, The Bailey, where Chu showcased a handful of pieces from his past collections. Thailand-born Chu is a highly respected and stand-out fashion designer who’s a regular feature on South African Fashion Week runways and international fashion platforms. In the fashion industry, he’s affectionately known as ‘The Prince of Prints’ for his love of bold, flamboyant prints and textures.
Image: Supplied Image: Supplied I caught up with Chu shortly after the launch over lunch to talk about this exciting partnership and fashion in general. LOUIS XIII Cognac is renowned for its craftsmanship, quality and man-made creations. And, in an accelerating and frenetic era where everyone is trapped in scaling up, industrialising and mass producing, LOUIS XIII strongly believes in the opposite, quality over quantity, time over instant gratification and slow pace over precipitation.
“I guess you could say I’m the chosen one, and I’m very honoured to partner with a brand like LOUIS XIII ” says Chu. “The LOUIS XIII production process is about timing and meticulous blending, which compares to the system of how I work and put together my collections.
Image: Supplied My fashion label CHULAAP blends Thai and African culture, looking at the past, present and future – almost like the different flavours of LOUIS XIII.
“My designs are timeless classics, bold and viewed as avant-garde by some, which speaks to this timeless Cognac.”
Chu arrived in South Africa around 20 years ago and worked his way up from a fashion assistant to fashion editor for several magazines. What sparked his interest in fashion?
“I’d say it began when I was around four-to-six years old. The influence came from my mom and sister, who are very stylish. Back then, they dressed in ’60s- and ’70s-style clothes. “I remember my mom had a big bob wig, which she’d wear to weddings or important events. She’d wear shift dresses, short, cropped, boxy jackets, court shoes, and carry a beaded sling bag. That was her uniform. “My sister always wore blue eyeshadow, and she loves mini-skirts and shift dresses with flowers and embroidery. One afternoon, when I was home alone, I found one of my mom’s skirts and wore it. I thought it was too long for me, so I cut it above knee-length, and that’s when I started fashion designing. When I was about 18, at university, I met a group of friends who were in fashion, and it took me back to that period when I was a child and I started thinking about the industry again. “I saw an advertisement from a small fashion boutique in Bangkok looking for a designer. During my interview, I told them I’d like to be a designer.
I didn’t even know how to draw, but they hired me. I attended university in the afternoon while working in the evenings.” Some of his biggest and most important takeaways from working in the competitive fashion industry include being true to yourself, especially in our current social media-driven world. If you want a decent career and for people to believe and trust you, your personality, behaviour and work is very important.
What’s the future of fashion? “Online shopping will continue growing, especially now it’s more expensive to maintain brick-and-mortar stores. “People are also buying clothing based on what’s close to their hearts. If they love streetwear, they’ll stick to wearing that.
“Customers are also sticking to designers they trust. Mine have believed in me from day one. So, don’t try to be someone else and focus on building a loyal customer base.
“I also believe in the young generation. They might not always be able to afford your pieces now, but they’re probably saying to themselves, I’ll buy your product in three or five years’ time. That’s what I did when I was young.”
This article was originally published in the October issue of Glamour SA, now available in-stores nationwide, or grab your digital copy, here .
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bella

camps bay retreat

Tania Durand
September 27, 2022
Looking for the perfect summer sundowner spot? The newly opened Bella’s Restaurant is the perfect place. Nestled in the picturesque Camps Bay Retreat, it is a haven for nature lovers and families, allowing you to enjoy a cocktail and a meal while basking in a beautiful sunset.
As the excitement of warmer days approaches, there’s nothing better than indulging in good food, wine and amazing views with your loved ones. This makes Bella’s the ideal spot.
lifestyle 5 places to enjoy a Heritage Day lunch celebration Read more The restaurant has an old world charm, with wooden floors, a beautiful fireplace and a resident friendly dog. We know winter is almost over but this makes for a cosy spot for winter date nights.
Image: Supplied Image: Supplied Camps Bay is the place to be seen during the summer months. From beach to bar, nothing rivals the ocean views and vibes that it offers.
With an emphasis on local, organic and quality ingredients, the a la carte menu ensures the best seasonal meals for guests.
As a starter, the Citrus and trout salad with pickled ginger with an Asian dressing was a delicious first choice and is ideal to share. For a main we would suggest their famous lamb ragu pasta with pappardelle pasta. But to be honest anything on the menu is a good choice.
WHERE: Camps Bay Retreat
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Breakfast Lunch Tea and Cake celebrations Sundowner snacks Dinner SPA & LUNCH PACKAGE
Wine, dine and pamper yourself with this amazing package which includes a 1-night stay in our Sky or Nature Room, R400 Lunch voucher at Bella’s Restaurant, back, neck, shoulder massage at Mint Wellness Spa as well as an a la carte cold and hot breakfast selection.
All for an amazing price of R2500 pps, enquire now as this amazing special offer is available until 15 December 2022.
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milan fashion week

gucci gucci

versace versace

bottega veneta

alessandro michele

Glamour South Africa
September 27, 2022
We were in for a treat with Milan Fashion Week. This season was full of understated luxury, playfulness and experimentation from Diesel’s frayed and dyed denim to Bottega Veneta’s colourful fringing. Scroll through our best looks from Milan Fashion Week.
Gucci Gucci’s spring/summer 2023 collection titled ‘Gucci Twinsburg’ was full of fantastical drama, glitz, playful silhouettes, tailoring and tiger stripes. For the collection Alessandro Michele poses the question, “What do you see? Do you see what it is?” With Gucci one thing is for sure you can always expect the unexpected.
fashion 5 expert-approved tips for shopping second-hand successfully Read more Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Versace Versace’s spring/summer 2023 collection was rebellious with edgy cutouts, fringed leather, neon, fuschia and purple, lace veils and chainmail.
Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Image: launchmetrics.com/spotlight Bottega Veneta Fringe was a prominent trend in this collection ranging from orange, yellow to blue. Matthieu Blazy’s teal blue finale dress left us all thinking, is blue the new pink?
Image: Salvatore Dragone Image: Salvatore Dragone Image: Salvatore Dragone Diesel This collection featured lots of denim from fringed and frayed denim to dyed denim.
Image: :Paolo Lanzi Image: Paolo Lanzi Fendi Pastels, florals and different shades of lime green are fresh for spring and the upcoming warmer season. This collection looked to the ‘90s with furry mules and cargo pants. Sheer was a prominent trend on the runway with various sheer slip dresses.
Image: launchmetrics/spotlight Image: launchmetrics/spotlight Prada Miuccia Prada and Raf Simmons’s show focused on simplicity and showcased wrinkled looks paired with Mary Janes, making unironed clothing fashionable.
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High-functioning anxiety sounds a bit like a humblebrag, right? It implies that you’re keeping it together (thriving, even!), regardless of how anxious and overwhelmed you may be. But despite the popularity of this term in conversations and Google searches, it’s not actually recognised in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) as a mental health condition. So what do we mean when we talk about high-functioning anxiety, and what should we be doing about it? This anxious-yet-highly-functioning health journalist consulted a few mental health professionals to find out how they define high-functioning anxiety, and what you should know if this term speaks to you. What is high-functioning anxiety? You won’t find high-functioning anxiety in the DSM-5, but that doesn’t mean that experts aren’t aware of the concept. It’s a term that’s often used alongside other traits that describe similar experiences yet also aren’t formal mental health diagnoses — like perfectionism, workaholism, and type A personality. The ‘high-functioning’ qualifier is more than likely referring to subclinical anxiety, or anxiety that doesn’t quite meet the criteria for a formal anxiety disorder, explains licensed psychologist Josh Spitalnick, Ph.D., CEO of Anxiety Specialists of Atlanta. That’s because some sort of disruption in your functioning (whether it’s messing with your work, school, social life, relationships, etc.) is a key criterion when it comes to being diagnosed with a mental health condition. For instance, the diagnostic criteria for generalised anxiety disorder include this point: “The anxiety, worry, or physical symptoms cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.” Chances are, if you identify with the term high-functioning anxiety, you probably don’t feel like your anxiety is holding you back in those major ways. So, what are you experiencing then? “When I say subclinical, really what I’m conveying is that someone is experiencing the cognitive, emotional, and physiological aspects of anxiety,” Dr. Spitalnick says. That might include things like restlessness, irritability, trouble sleeping, racing heart, unwanted thoughts, and many other uncomfortable symptoms of anxiety that aren’t always noticeable to those around you. But what’s missing is the behavioural piece — how these symptoms lead to disruptions in your day-to-day life. “They’re not necessarily crumbling under pressure as you might imagine the extreme of any diagnosis,” licensed psychologist Alicia Hodge, Psy.D., tells SELF. “These people are seeing a lot of productivity or busyness, but ultimately are still very physically activated—they’re having a lot of worry, rumination, and concern.” So, when is high-functioning anxiety a problem? It’s no secret that being a perfectionist, a multitasker, and a person who generally gets shit done is rewarded and reinforced in many aspects of our society. You’re certainly not alone if you’ve felt like your fatigue, frustration, and overwhelm are just… part of being a person today, especially if you have a lot going on. So, when does being stressed out about your endless to-do list cross the line into high-functioning anxiety territory? “The difference between the driven person that does not have high-functioning anxiety and the driven person that does is the symptoms of anxiety,” therapist and coach Aisha Shabazz, L.C.S.W., tells SELF. “Do you have restlessness during the day? Are you able to have an even balance and a natural pattern of sleep? Do you have any GI symptoms as it relates to being nervous, overwhelmed, anxious, stressed?” Essentially, if you’re experiencing mental or physical symptoms of anxiety, that’s something worth paying attention to. “The way in which I conceptualise high-functioning anxiety is that you can take on more than most people. But just because you can lift a heavy boulder doesn’t mean it’s not heavy,” Shabazz says. Still, most people — whether they realise it or not — seem to be adhering to the criteria laid out in the DSM: They’re not seeking help until their symptoms lead to real consequences in their daily lives, like missing deadlines or special events. In fact, many high-achieving people may not address their symptoms until they notice a dip in their performance or productivity, even if those symptoms include intense dread, constant worry, and the unavoidable physiological signs of stress. “If the problem is not showing up behaviourally, then some people would say, ‘I don’t have a problem,’” Dr. Spitalnick, who notes that very few adults come into his practice with high-functioning anxiety, says; instead, he tends to see them once that functioning takes a hit. On the other hand, he does see a lot of kids, teenagers, and college students whose parents are worried that their stressed-out child is headed for burnout — despite their perfect attendance and exam results. Burnout is another term you often hear associated with high-functioning anxiety — both hinting at our culture’s desire to describe an emotionally and physically fraught experience in a way that’s more relatable and less pathological than what you might find in the DSM. “I think burnout became much more discussed because it’s essentially a manifestation of emotional and wellness issues, but it’s in relation to work,” Dr. Hodge says. “Since we’re very focused in our society on work and productivity, it kind of became a catch-all term for: This is not sustainable, this pace is ridiculous, and I can’t function like this.” But high-functioning anxiety doesn’t only thrive in professional settings, notes Shabazz. It can also be fuelled by societal expectations thrust upon people based on their gender, race, culture, parenting status, and other factors. What is the treatment for high-functioning anxiety? If high-functioning anxiety is essentially anxiety that hasn’t yet led to real consequences in your daily life, why not address the symptoms before they have a chance to impact your functioning? While this might include therapy and/or medication, Dr. Spitalnick notes that not everyone who identifies with high-functioning anxiety necessarily needs that type of intervention. For some people, addressing the symptoms of anxiety — especially the worry, the rumination, and the restlessness — can happen through mindfulness and meditation practices. “Anxiety is happening in the future — it’s the what ifs, it’s the hypothetical, things that have not happened yet,” Shabazz says. “[One] way in which we can combat anxiety is to bring us back to the present moment because it’s nearly impossible to exist in the present moment and to be in the future.” (I took Shabazz’s advice and tried to practice mindfulness in the shower — rather than my usual routine of cycling through all of my existential worries one by one — and honestly it worked. 10/10 would recommend this tip.) But addressing the symptoms is just one piece of the puzzle. It’s also important to take a long, hard look at the environment that may be fuelling and reinforcing this high-functioning anxiety. Are you in an industry where unrealistic and unsustainable workloads are the norm? Have you taken on more obligations than any one person can reasonably tackle on their own? Are you only ‘functioning’ because you’ve been told by your community or your peers that you need to ‘put on a brave face’ and not ‘let anyone see you sweat’? Shabazz suggests you start by asking yourself if your environment can change, or if you can change your relationship to that environment. Are there alternatives to your current reality? Are there ways you can do less or do things differently and know that you’re still living a life of value? Dr. Spitalnick agrees, explaining that much of this work involves taking inventory of your values outside of professional success and even talking with people you admire (ideally in your same industry) about ways they manage their work/life balance. Checking out books, seminars, and webinars can also help you to shift your perspective on how to balance your personal and professional goals. Finally, know that you don’t need to wait for dysfunction to strike in order to seek out therapy. Dr. Spitalnick suggests both cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) for people who identify with high-functioning anxiety. CBT “can teach people very basic skills very quickly — within just a few sessions — to reduce stress, find physical and emotional balance in their life, and come up with reasonable, achievable goals that are sustainable,” he says. “And acceptance and commitment therapy can, then, also help people identify the values that are important to them, both professional and personal, and find ways to achieve them.” While society might tell us that keeping it together when you’re overworked and overwhelmed is a badge of honour, it’s time to start questioning the validity and sustainability of that mindset. “Your value is not in your productivity,” Dr. Hodge says. “It’s in living a meaningful life, and that can be done in so many ways.” This article originally appeared on SELF. Subscribe Subscribe GLAMOUR Recommends This is what you need to know about high-functioning depression These strange orgasm side effects are blowing our minds (post-climax hallucination, anyone?) 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There has been a lot of talk about marketing to Generation Z and their purchasing power. Even though it’s clear that companies need to talk to this group, marketers would be making a mistake if they ignored Gen X in favour of this younger cohort.
Between the Baby Boomers and the Millennials, Generation X is widely considered the forgotten generation. It’s easy for marketers to think of this group as a small and unimportant target market, but if they do, they could miss out on a captive, ready-to-spend audience with more money to spend than younger consumers.
An appetite for risk
“Consider the statistics indicating that Generation X crypto buyers invest more than Generation Z and Millennial investors,” says Tony Mallam, CEO of upnup, a micro-savings and investing app. Mallam explains that Gen X investors have more spare cash to invest in cryptocurrency due to their age. “The amounts spent by Gen X investors show that they clearly have an appetite for risk and reward that matches and even exceeds those of younger investors,” he says.
Many members of Generation X are in the prime of their careers, which means they have greater earning power and control over the majority of household spending decisions. For brands, this is an audience that comes with a lot of interests and opportunities to engage. For example, they’re interested in spending time with family, health and wellness, anti-aging, and travelling abroad. All of this means that there’s more opportunity to engage.
Financial security
“The earlier brackets of this generation grew up with the understanding that to achieve great things you needed to work hard, and so they plugged in the hours and built up financial nest eggs for themselves and their families,” says Jonathan Hurvitz, CEO of Teljoy. “In our post-COVID reality, they want to invest some of those hard-earned rands in living their lives – and so they are dipping their toes into the subscription/access environment and spending smaller, more affordable amounts on things like Netflix and Spotify subscriptions, and even seeing what it feels like to have a fancy big-screen TV or sound system in their homes on a short-term subscription basis. This gives them a ‘safe’ balance of embracing these experiences, while knowing that they still have their financial security in place.”
Prime working years
Gen Xers are a fertile travel market – they have expendable income saved up, and are still in their prime working years so the income is renewable. “A survey conducted by Cheapflights.co.za’ revealed that 4 in 10 (43%) South African adult travellers who belong to Gen X believe that paying for a holiday this year will be more difficult than in previous years. Despite this, many are eager to start travelling again, with around 85% of those willing to make cuts and lifestyle changes in order to fund their next holiday. They are careful about where they spend their money, and they want to make sure they’re getting bang for their buck. So they spend time doing their research, comparing flight and accommodation prices, and making sure that the experiences they are investing in are going to deliver maximum reward.This generation want to travel, especially after being locked down for almost two years,” suggests Laure Bornet, GM, KAYAK EMEA, which manages Cheapflights.co.za
A playful generation
Generation X is the last generation to have lived in both the real and digital world in some sense. According to Glenn Gillis, CEO of Sea Monster, “This is the generation that saw the launch of the internet and the first playstation, therefore Gen X was really the first of the new gaming generation in the modern sense that we understand it. Now their kids are on Fortnite and they do not feel as alienated from it as older generations do. They largely do understand how gaming is shaping the world and therefore how it should shape marketing. They are playful and certainly still gaming all these years later, so the question is, how is your marketing evolving to meet Gen X in this new gaming space?”
Connection and experience
For brands engaging with Generation X consumers, customer experience is of particular importance. This generation values authenticity and personalisation, much like their younger counterpart, Generation Z. “At the heart of a great customer experience is connection, and ensuring that experience is superior and that the connection feels authentic is key to delivering customer success,” says Linda Saunders, Director Solution Engineering, Salesforce South Africa.
Brands need to realise that each audience is different and that what works for one group might not work for another. Businesses that see the value of each generation as a potential customer and market to their specific needs will see their brand equity grow over time.
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5 Reasons why you should not overlook Generation X

No one could ever dispute that social media has been by far one of the greatest things to ever have existed in the 21st century. You don’t have to look very far these days to find a preteen or teen glued to their phone texting and scrolling through social media.
Just like many things social media has advantages and disadvantages. Social media has indeed broken many barriers and allows us to stay connected to family and friends all over the globe. Unfortunately, it has also taken a huge toll on today’s youth. For most teens it’s difficult to remember living in a world without technology. They cannot imagine a world without the internet, which allows them to use apps and social media.
According to Today’s Parents.com the average age that kids get their first cellphone is at the age of 10, with nearly 40 percent of kids having a social media account by the age of eleven. This generation of today’s kids feels the need to share everything on social media. For them, response to their posts, such as “likes,” and “comments”, are taken very seriously.
Various social media accounts such as Instagram have created many unrealistic beauty standards and more materialistic possessions. Which has caused many teens to compare their lives to others, all because of what is showcased or seen on these social media apps. Resulting in many preteens or teens to alter their appearances, engage in negative behaviours, and accept risky social media challenges to gain attention in the name of “likes,” “comment”, and “number of followers”.
According to a research done by Childmind.org, “heavy social media use has been linked to increased depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem among kids.” Which therefore prevents the development of some social skills and direct communication skills. Today’s kids spend more time connecting on social media, instead of building social skills and having conversations in person, this may result in many of them lacking knowledge on how to read body language, facial expressions, or vocal infections.
Social media is a major distraction which leads to the lack of sleep and poor academic performances.
According to Today’sParents, which advises parents to monitor their kids’s technology usage because kids may stay up late without their parent realising they are not asleep. Although it is difficult to monitor your kids social media usage, as you may not be with your kids 24 hour of the day which is why it is super imperative from early child to install in your kids that “social media is a resource and not a necessity.”
Also see : Why you should teach kids to be smart on social media

Social media is causing more harm than ever before among teens

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South Africans are so eager to migrate to Australia through the quickest and easiest routes that they hinder themselves from going through the visa process successfully.
One of the biggest mistakes South Africans make is not knowing where they will live and work when migrating to Australia. Taking the easy way to apply for a visa hoping to get lucky.
However it is understandable with the panic state that each South African is facing wanting to migrate.
Many are considering leaving the country because of load shedding, and a dramatic increase in the cost of living.
South Africans are seeking better education, opportunity and primarily a safer life, also find the Australian culture, language and climate compatible to theirs.
Others leave to seek career progression and enhancement where their passion and profession may not provided in South Africa.
Australia unemployment figure stands at 6.8%. This figure is mostly made up by the ageing population, those unable to work and children under the age of 18 who are not allowed to work. With a healthy growing economy with endless job opportunities for all.
Now, compare that to the unemployment rate of South Africa that is floating above 30.1%.
This means when one job hunts in Australia they are most likely to get a job, unlike South Africa where you have to take whatever is available or risk being unemployed.
Think of whatever that may annoy you, like potholes not being fixed, refuse not being removed, taking years to repair pipes.
Well, without fail you do not see your taxes going to waste. Australian government never stops investing in their infrastructure .
Australia boasts one of the World’s most advanced and complete infrastructures which includes top-quality roadways, top international standard public transport like trains and busses, some of the World’s largest and best-equipped state hospitals, schools, and universities.
Australia is a laid back and friendly community but with a lot of structure and self-discipline. Citizens act maturely; respecting laws and each other which naturally means far less crime and an overall safe more peaceful existence.

Why South Africans are migrating to Australia?

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It’s official, Trevor Noah is coming home for the Spring comedy tour.
Savanna cider has partnered up with international comedy star Trevor Noah for a long overdue South African comedy tour.
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Trevor will be performing on 12 confirmed dates from the 31st of August to the 15th of September 2023. He is set to perform in Cape Town Grand West, Durban International Convention Centre and Sunbet Arena in Pretoria with four shows in each city.
Early bird tickets are set to go live from the 27th of September 2022 at 09:00am SA standard time.
Supporters of both the Savanna cider and Trevor Noah took to twitter to show their excitement of the return of Trevor back home and expressed how much they cannot wait for the comedy show.
“The love we know, Team Savivi always shows up. We are ready to buy our early bird tickets, I mean who wants to miss the son of Mme Patricia on stage making us laugh out loud like we don’t have a lot of problems in the country. #SiyavannaSA #TrevorNoahLiveinSA ” tweeted one supporter.
The Daily Show host has hosted in South Africa some of the best comedy shows namely; Trevor Noah: There’s a Gupta On My Stoep, Trevor Noah: That’s Racist and Trevor Noah: The Daywalker. He also took to his personal instagram to announce the comedy saying “can’t wait to come home”.
Mzansi’s favorite premier cider will be running numerous competitions. They have asked supporters to keep their eyes glued onto their social media accounts to stand a chance to win tickets to the shows.

Trevor Noah returns home for Spring tour

With around 300 days of sunshine and swimmable surf that doesn’t require a wetsuit, KwaZulu Natal is the perfect place to add a tropical twist to your getaway cravings. Experts in the hospitality sector forecast that over one million tourists are expected to visit Durban during the winter season and they will directly spend R1.45 billion (€85,4m), with the GDP contribution being R3.6 billion (€212m).
Arguably the gem of the entire KZN North Coast is the Umhlanga coastline.Despite Umhlanga’s sophistication – its fancy mansions, slick apartment blocks and rollicking restaurant scene – there’s still a sense of encroaching wilderness. The promenade parallel to the beach connects all the way to a remnant of forest at the northern end of the strip, great for nature-immersive walks with vervet monkeys gallivanting through the treetops, duikers on the ground and raptors overhead.
Between Gateway’s sprawling mall and Umhlanga’s bustling seaside village, there’s plenty to keep you busy, but if you have children in tow (or simply need a gearshift), it’s worth driving into the city, just 20 minutes south. At one end of Durban’s Golden Mile, uShaka Marine World is a world-class aquarium where penguins, seals and sharks are on view. Children will scream their appreciation as they ride the watery slides at Wet ‘n Wild – you can leave them to their own devices while you can sink cocktails at Moyo uShaka’s pier bar situated 100m out to sea.
If you crave more grown-up pleasures, Station Road is where you’ll find Durban’s original craft distillery. Distillery 031’s founder, Andrew Rall has made a point of reimagining classic spirits using African ingredients – taste the difference those ingredients make by signing up for a distillery tour. Or take the plunge at Moses Mabhida Stadium, where the world’s tallest bungee swing requires you to leap from the stadium’s basket-handle-shaped arch above the soccer pitch.
If you’re more intent on disconnecting from the bustle, use your base at either of the new 4-star and 3-star Premier Hotels that have opened in KwaZulu-Natal’s prosperous Umhlanga Ridge, a mushrooming business district just north of Durban, as a springboard to explore KwaZulu-Natal’s more northerly stretches.
Pick the upmarket 4-star Premier Hotel Umhlanga if you favour a room with a full-on view of the ocean. Apart from its state-of-the-art conferencing facilities, guests can relax at the rooftop pool and terrace bar – another highlight is the viewing deck with its sweeping 180-degree views towards the sea, affording a sublime sense of floating above it all.
Or opt for quarters at the Premier Splendid Inn Umhlanga for more budget-friendly comforts. Done out in a clean, pearl-white palette with marine-hued accents, marble surfaces and timeless furnishings, this contemporary establishment affords abundant breathing space in its public areas and a mix of soothing, light-filled rooms and elegant suites. Both properties are conveniently close to a trove of experiences and come with Premier’s signature touch of personalised service, designed to elevate your stay in this lush pocket of South Africa’s East Coast.
Of great appeal is its immediate proximity to Gateway, where opportunities for a shopping spree are legion; besides countless eating-and-drinking spots, the vast complex also has outdoor playgrounds – a water-park full of crazy slides, a huge skate-park designed by skateboard legend Tony Hawk – and a farmer’s market. Beyond what’s available right at your doorstep, Umhlanga Ridge’s location also makes it an excellent starting point for exploration in just about any direction. Umhlanga Rocks - with its distinctive lighthouse, tree-shrouded promenade, rock pools and charged tropical energy - is fringed by several of South Africa’s most beautifully maintained stretches of beach with designated bathing areas and tidal rock pools where youngsters can splash around safely. All along this epic stretch, you’ll find lovely spots to wade, bodysurf, or simply stare across the distant horizon. Further afield, dotted along the seaboard beyond bustling Ballito are such charming holiday hamlets as Shaka’s Rock, Salt Rock and Sheffield. Each has a choice of wide-open beaches (make sure you pick ones watched by lifeguards and swim between the flags as tides are unpredictable).
52 minutes from Durban you’ll find Scottburgh, a charming bay situated on the south bank of the Mpambanyoni River and a favourite among tourists, beach-loving families and scuba divers. The resort, situated on the beachfront, is set amidst 14 acres of beautifully manicured grounds, unspoilt indigenous vegetation and 180-degree sea views, with the grassy embankments leading to golden sandy beaches. In addition to comfortable accommodation, families will also find amenities like a swimming pool, bar, pizza oven and a restaurant terrace. The world-renowned Aliwal Shoal diving experience is nearby, with the Scuba Xcursion Dive Centre onsite offering various ocean activities for adventure-seekers.
Attractions and activities for the family: Family-friendly activities include Aliwal Shoal, Crocworld (animal park), Scottburgh Beach, TC Robertson Nature Reserve, a golf club, and scuba diving at Aliwal Shoal. There’s no shortage of fun things to do for the whole family at Premier Resort Cutty Sark , Scottburgh.
Further up the coast, the conservancy village of Mtunzini sits adjacent to Umlalazi Nature Reserve, where the Mlalazi River spills into the ocean and zebras freely roam the streets, saunter across the golf course and sometimes end up inside the Spar.
Things get wilder still when you head all the way into the protected areas of iSimangaliso Wetland Park, the UNESCO World Heritage Site that stretches for 220km along the coast. Rare turtles nest here; migrating whales, dolphins, and whale sharks congregate off-shore; and there are at least 526 bird species worth noting. In some areas, if you don’t watch where you’re going at night you could run into grazing hippos. Even in the little tourist village of St Lucia, you are on the fringe of incredible wilderness with dune forests and crocs basking on the banks of the estuary. Undersea safaris happen at Cape Vidal, where snorkelling is popular, and at Sodwana, one of the world’s finest scuba spots.
And if you want a more traditional safari experience that includes the big cats, elephant and rhino, you can make a foray into Africa’s oldest declared nature reserve, Hluhluwe-iMfolozi Park – or visit uMkhuze Game Reserve nearby. And, if you tire of the seaside, you can always head inland instead. The Midlands Meander is a great network of towns, hamlets and farming communities across the KwaZulu-Natal interior where you’ll find craft emporiums, art galleries, farm stalls, haunted pubs, wineries, and a few indelible monuments such as the Nelson Mandela Capture Site. Keep your eye on the horizon, too, for the looming high-altitude expanse of the Drakensberg Mountain range.
Whether you’re in town on business, fishing for that next deal, or looking to soak up some seaside downtime, savour the province's laid back vibe.

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Thousands of South Africans gathered this past weekend at the Kyalami Grand Prix Circuit and International Convention Centre for the DStv Delicious International Food and Music Festival in Johannesburg.
Though these music festival and food lovers were excited about finally coming together and celebrating international food. The Headliners artist African Giant Burna Boy and local artists Simphiwe Dana and Msaki. Attendees said they were extremely frustrated and disappointed at the “overall planning” of the event.
Attendees took to social media to complain about the under-planning of the event, the extremely long queues to go inside the event. Some noted the extremely long queues to go inside the event area. While others were contended with more queues inside the venue for purchasing of food, drinks and even using the restrooms.
“I’m going home. What a horrible experience. They ran out of tags but you need it to get access to the VIP or even get food or drink. Have been standing in line almost all day. 0 out of 10” tweeted one attendee
I’m going home. What a horrible experience. They ran out of tags but you need it to get access to the VIP or even get food or drink. Have been standing in line almost all day. 0 out of 10. #DStvDeliciousFestival2022
— Dating Dropout 🕳 (@Khanya_C) September 24, 2022
After receiving many complaints from attendees through social media, the organising team sent out an apology on their social media platforms. “To all the patrons of Day 1 of the #DStvDeliciousFestival2022 whose experience was less than pleasant, we extend our sincerest apologies. We appreciate the opportunity to do better,” tweeted the festival Saturday.
To all the patrons of Day 1 of the #DStvDeliciousFestival2022 whose experience was less than pleasant, we extend our sincerest apologies.
We appreciate the opportunity to do better
Working together with the festival organisers, the following measures were put in place for Day 2 pic.twitter.com/r3dr9o05HY
— DStv (@DStv) September 25, 2022
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Young South Africans have spoken out and voted for their coolest brands in the Sunday Times GenNext Awards.
At the awards ceremony held in Johannesburg last night, African Bank was awarded 2nd Place in a new category this year, the coolest Savings and Investment platform. Reflecting rapid innovation and consumer technology adoption, this places African Bank ahead of far bigger established brands.
The Sunday Times GenNext survey is considered the leading barometer of what SA’s youth find on trend and aspirational and delivers insights that are valued by brand management, advertising and marketing professionals.
The survey, conducted by Yellowwood, has previously been limited to SA youths between the ages of eight and 23, but for the third time also includes a sample population of young professionals, aged 25 to 30 years. Just short of 6,000 youth and young professionals across the country were polled during the 2022 survey period.
Commenting on the placement, Sbusiso Kumalo, African Bank’s Chief Marketing Officer, says he is delighted that African Bank has scored so highly with young South Africans. ‘It is really great they see us as a brand they are comfortable to entrust their money with. We are a bank for the people serving the people and these young adults are our valued customers who will shape our landscape in the years to come.’
Also see: African Bank introduces a new, world class, loyalty program for its customers

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South African Idols, season 18 top eight took us on a beaming journey .
Taking us down to memory lane of one of the greatest hits from artists such as, The Beatles, Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey.
With over 7 million votes casted by Mzantsi fans lead us to the top eight : Nozi, CeeJay, Zee, Kabelo, Ty Loner, Thapelo, Mpilo and Noxolo. Sadly, Tesmin-Robyn’s Idols SA journey came to an end.
The show started off with the most thrilling performances, paying tributes to kwaito legends TKZee.
The top 8eight had the Heartfelt Arena on their feet with an upbeat medley of Dlala Mapantsula, Phala Fala, Fiasco and Shibobo.
Amapiano sensation given by Pabi Cooper kept the momentum going with an energetic performance of Banyana ke bafana and Waga Bietjie.
Starting off the show Nozi gave an exceptional performance, of her father’s high school crush – Roberta Flack’s The first time I ever saw your face.
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Somizi Mhlongo gave Nozi a standing ovation, saying there is no word in the dictionary that can describe her performance.
JR Bogopa added that the song Nozi,sang was hard to mess up with the brilliant voice she has. He then added to say, “You personified what it is to be a vocal powerhouse.”
CeeJay serenaded the judges with Mafikizolo’s Mas’thokoze, receiving some constructive feedback.
Thembi Seete said: “I didn’t know where you were going with the song, but you recovered. There’s nothing I can fault.”
JR begged to differ. “There was no vocal control. I know you were a bit unsure by singing to the judges, but it was not it.”
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Ty Loner gave us the 3rd performance who sang, the New Edition’s Can You Stand The Rain.
Thembi said it was another big performance for him. “If it happens that you don’t win, you are going to be fine. Carry on with the discipline and passion you have.”
JR said there were many successful versions of this song, but the Ty Loner one “is right up there with my favourites.”
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Thapelo was next and delivered an emotionally charged performance of The Beatles’ Let it Be, reducing him to tears and scoring him a standing ovation from all three judges.
JR thanked him for his talent and sharing it with the country, and reminded him that he was special.
Somizi gave Thapelo the “Woo Shem!”
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Mpilo gave her own rendition of Mariah Carey’s Hero, which highly impressed the judging panel.
Somizi described her performance as ” Perfection.”
Thembi said it was beautiful to witness Mpilo’s growth in the competition. “You carried the song like a queen.”
JR commended Mpilo for carrying the song alone, without any backing vocals. He then added that if his fans let him down he will sign him, himself
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Noxolo wrapped the show performing Natalie Cole’s Miss You Like Crazy.
Thembi said Noxolo was “such a joy to watch”. “I’m sure your mom is super proud. You’re putting in the work.”
JR said: “Vocal-wise you’re flawless. You’re really doing well. Just watch out for over-dramatising.“
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The Top 8 left the judging panel and Mzantsi in awe.

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We already know anything Rihanna does causes mass hysteria. And the Barbadian beauty doesn’t make it any easier on her fans with her ever elusive nature, meaning each career move she makes is a cause for celebration. Now, she may be bouncing from having a baby in the most epic way possible. While she is still yet to release new music, The Believe It hitmaker is giving us the next best thing - she is performing at the 2023 Super Bowl Halftime Show. The singer broke the news yesterday by sharing a picture of her hand holding an NFL-branded football on her Instagram page. View this post on Instagram Apple, who is the event’s main sponsor, also confirmed the news. “"IT'S ON. @rihanna will take the stage for the first ever Apple Music Super Bowl Halftime Show on 2.12.23," they said in a Tweet. IT'S ON.@rihanna will take the stage for the first ever Apple Music Super Bowl Halftime Show on 2.12.23. #SBLVII @NFL @NFLonFOX @RocNation pic.twitter.com/Kz1YY19zAA — Apple Music (@AppleMusic) September 25, 2022 The news came amid reports that the singer was in talks to headline the show. The SuperBowl typically draws in one the single biggest TV audieces of the year in the United States, and marks a prestigious career milestone for muscians who perform at the Half Time Show. “Rihanna is a generational talent, a woman of humble beginnings who has surpassed expectations at every turn,” said Jay-Z in the official announcement by Roc Nation, Rihanna’s management label. “A person born on the small island of Barbados who became one of the most prominent artists ever. Self-made in business and entertainment.” While the news of her performance is indeed exciting, this is not the first time the Fenty Beauty founder has been approached by the NFL. In 2019, the singer turned down an offer to headline the Half Time Show in solidarity with Colin Kaepernick. Now, she will join a bevy of other female pop sensations who have headlined the Super Bowl Halftime Show, including Madonna, Beyonce, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Jenifer Lopez and Shakira, Mary J Blige, and Patti Labelle. The Superbowl Will take place at State Farm Stadium in Glendale, Arizona, on 12 February 2023. Subscribe Subscribe

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Asanda ‘Msaki’ Lusaseni is an award-winning singer-songwriter and producer with a distinct voice and sound. Her take on art and music sets her apart as a force. She chats to Glamour about her latest album, renowned collabs and approach to activism. Msaki is a big part of the reason I can attest to the power of music. Her soothing voice has gotten me out of bed more times than I care to admit. ‘Fetch Your Life’, which she co-wrote with Prince Kaybee, was my anthem at a time when my sense of purpose was out of reach. Aware of her impact, she says, “The song became a rallying call, battle cry, lifeline and an inspirational mantra. People took to it, making it the biggest song on South African radio in 2019 with 3.1 billion impressions.” In 2020, she received four SAMA nominations and dominated digital and radio charts with her serendipitous collaboration with Sun-El Musician on the motivational ‘Ubomi Abumanga’. She says that iconic collab “is the result of care and a lot of respect for each other and the craft. We’ve become such good friends through our shared desire to build and create and support other artists.” And she shares they generally come together over positive things. Even outside of music, as we love the same sports. “When it’s time to make music, it’s as natural as breathing. He’s my best friend and one of the kindest, most encouraging people I’ve ever met.” Her collabs with industry greats include her synergy with Tresor on her 2019 single, ‘Pearls To Swine’, whose music video she directed. The single earned her a nomination for Best Produced Video, and ‘Sondela’ was a nominee for Song of the Year. Diplo, Kabza De Small and Black Coffee are amongst the icons with whom she’s worked. “My collaborations are birthed from friendships and a desire to highlight other artists’ unique selling points. I try to make music with people I’d want to be stuck in the car with on a long drive. My main question is usually, what do we have to say together? I leave many of them to organic timing and natural synergy, but I’ve also learnt how to be an intentional collaborator, so a song carries the energy of two souls, not one. There’s already magic in that!” Her feature on Black Coff ee’s album earned her an honorary Grammy Award, which she says is “wild! I’m meeting and collaborating with more and more people who casually mention they have a few of them! “I hope Grammy energy can rub off on a gal! But, seriously, it became real when the certifi cate arrived at my house. I was honoured and grateful Black Coffee had included me in his projects.” The Inimitable Muso is on a winning streak. And has just bagged two 2022 South African Music Awards for Best Female of the Year and Best Adult Contemporary Album Awards and five nominations for Artist of the year, Female artist of the year, Best Produced Album, Best Collaboration and Best Adult Contemporary Album for her critically acclaimed sophomore double-album, Platinumb Heart, distributed by Platoon. If you’ve been following her music journey since her debut EP, ‘Nal’Ithemba’ in 2013, and debut LP, ‘Zaneliza: How the Water Moves’ in 2016, you’ll be familiar with her captivating content. Her latest body of work is a fusion of electronic dance, folk and amapiano. From a content perspective, how is it different from her previous albums? “Platinumb Heart Open and Platinumb Heart Beating feature protest and love songs. The colour of the sound is red and gold, like blood and minerals. Whereas, Zaneliza is blue and white. It’s a water album concerned with healing and cleansing. Platinumb Heart is also a heavier, denser work that asks more questions.” She enlightens that her creative process is layered. “I move from many ideas in search of one or two. It’s part of my process to make a heap of stuff and then take away from it to leave a motif.” It’s fascinating that her deep connection with art comes through in her expression. “I was a visual artist before I was a musician. I studied different media, from photography to painting. I work on installation and performance art too. My album launch was an art exhibition made up of a series of installations representing the songs.” She notes November is a special month for her. Not only is on the cover of this issue, but it also marks the anniversary of her albums. This double-drop is one for the books! “I can’t believe it’s been a year! People have been so warm and generous with their feedback. My supporters wrote me essays in response to the albums.” It’s hard to ignore her great speaking voice, and I’m curious about some of the conversations that have emanated from it. “Thank you! A few people have told me I should host a radio show. That makes me laugh because my nickname is derived from that. Msaki came from nomsakazo, which came from msasazi, meaning radio DJ.” I’d never have guessed! “ Her comment sparks my curiosity about her upbringing. “Growing up, I was mostly into sports. I played provincial tennis, hockey and cricket and was a member of a very sporty family. And I’ve always liked poetry, which is the earliest expression of my individuality as an artist. I used to love conversation too and would often find myself with adults chipping into their conversations – if you’re African you’ll know how taboo that is. My nickname, Nomsakazo, came about because I’d literally interview my parents’ visitors like a radio host, intrigued by their stories. I think I have a podcast in me. I’m interested in many alternative ways of thought, still enjoy conversations and the idea of peer interviews fascinates me.” Msaki also uses her voice to effect change and amplify calls for social justice. What does that speak to? “Maybe, I’m an accidental activist. I wrote songs as a response to painful events unfolding in South Africa. I was disturbed by the reality of events such as the Marikana massacre, how FeesMustFall unfolded and GBV was becoming cemented in our vocabulary.” And she shares that she was writing to keep her heart from becoming numb. “I was completely shook that striking men, students and civilians were being shot, sometimes in the back, resulting from what seemed to be callous and careless leadership. I’m appalled that South Africa is one of the least safe places for women to live. I’m still processing that, and art seems like the final courtroom when all the others have failed us.” Read the full cover story in the October issue of Glamour SA, now available in-stores nationwide, or grab your digital copy, here. Subscribe Subscribe

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September 26, 2022
Award-winning singer-songwriter Simphiwe Dana is a South African icon who’s given us anthems such as ‘Ndiredi’ and ‘Zandisile’, which we’ll enjoy for many years. Her voice is raw yet soothing, but her lyrics evoke emotion on a social, political, spiritual and romantic level.
Her live performances are masterpieces of performance-art-meets-fashion, which she delivers meticulously. It’s been two years since Simphiwe Dana’s last album, Bamako, and we’ve missed her. This month, she releases her most-anticipated album yet, MOYA. In this Glamour exclusive, she shares with us what to expect from the album and talks about life in general.
lifestyle A snapshot of our October cover story with Msaki Read more “MOYA is a collaboration of my new and old work. My most recent tracks are reminiscent of the raw acapella songs that got me signed to Gallo Record Company years ago when the only instrument I had was my voice. It was surprising, as I had no intention of producing anything new. I guess we process grief differently. The running theme of the work seems to centre around a yearning for and yielding to a higher power, an exercise that brings comfort and hope.”
Describe your typical songwriting process.
Simphiwe Dana : Music, to me, comes in melodies. My job is to decode the emotion and the message the melody is communicating. It’s a very humbling process.
You’ve been quiet on social media and we miss your strong opinions. Is there a reason?
I’m at a stage of learning right now, a stage of my life that requires quiet, so I can listen. I believe I’m transitioning to a different phase of life where my priorities have shifted.
What inspires your creativity?
Honestly, I just live my life. I’m grateful to live doing what I believe changes lives, no matter how small. I get to live off my thoughts and feelings, observations of myself and humanity as a whole. So, what inspires me is the human condition.
What message, if any, do you try to put into your body of work?
That maintaining our humanity requires us to have empathy for ourselves and others.
Do you ever find yourself unable to express your creativity to the fullest?
I find that I can’t switch on my creativity at will. This is why I mostly stay away from collaborations. The pressure is too much. I’m too self-conscious to do my best in such situations. I create comfortably when I’m alone.
How do you balance your music with other obligations, such as relationships, friends, children and art?
I’m still learning. I inject love into every moment in which I’m present. I hope that’ll prove to be enough.
How important do you think music publishing is to emerging artists?
It should be important for any writer and composer of music. In South Africa’s music industry, we have a working legal framework for that. You need to understand it to make well-informed and fair decisions.
If you could change anything about the industry, what would it be?
First and foremost, radio and TV airplay. We won’t grow to our potential without home-ground advantage. We need to understand how branding works. Local artists needn’t leave South Africa to make it. They shouldn’t have to make us proud elsewhere.
Artists need their countries’ support to carry the flag anywhere. Therefore, we need to update our airplay framework to favour and empower local artists.
What social issues are you passionate about?
Right now, what gives me sleepless nights is safety. It feels like we live in an open zoo, where we could fall prey to predators.
Do you have any advice for aspiring songwriters?
Don’t fall for trends. Write the rhythms and melodies in your heart. They’re there for a reason.
This article originally appeared in our October 2022 issue. Grab your digital copy here .
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It was a night of purpose and partying in Accra Ghana as the Global Citizen Festival took place on Saturday 24 September. Set against the historical backdrop of the country’s Black Star Square - a symbol of independence, democracy and resilience, the 10th edition of the Global Citizen Festival brought together more than 2,000 people to champion the eradication of extreme poverty and the achievement of other SDGs by 2030. Many global citizens, artists and impact makers used the stage to address issues of climate change, women empowerment, economic growth, education and more at the festival. World and corporate leaders including US’s ambassador to Ghana; Virginia E. Palmer, representatives from United Nations and more used the opportunity to make pledges towards the advancement of different causes and projects on the African continent and the world. American singer, SZA, who was performing in Africa for the first time, pledged her full support and commitment to the global goals championed by the Global Citizen initiative. “I will do all that is within my power to make sure that we can save the beauty of Ghana and all parts of Africa.” she said. Aside from the advocacy, festival-goers were thrilled to jam to diverse music genres like Amapiano, Afrobeats, Hip-Hop down to Grime performed by the global artists from Stormzy, Usher, Uncle Waffles the Amapiano princess, Stonebwoy, down to Sakordie. Another poignant element that marked the Global Citizen Festival Accra edition was the unmissable street style of the fashionable festival-goers. The street style outlook was both powerful styles and more understated variations just as diverse as the crowd. Impressive and self-expressive looks was the hallmark of the street stylers. Think dark and moody colors for the alternative crowd, effervescent colors mixed with nostalgic elements for the kidcore aesthetic dressers and everything cool in between. One festival-goer hopped on the Kidcore-cum-DIY trend with a sweet ode to 90s cartoons with colorful painted denim pants. Meanwhile, another duo opted for ensembles made from bandannas, 80 sequins and sheer fabrics. One thing was certain - street style ruled the grounds . Take a closer look at some of the palpable looks from the stylish crowd who turned up — and turnt out — at the Global Citizen Festival, Accra shot by Caleb Otchi. Words by: Eyram Rafael Subscribe Subscribe

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Founder of O Nutricia Lucy Tavares and founder of Alfros Hair Growth Products Aldora Chindombe on the benefits of collagen and natural hair ingredients. THERE ARE NO TWO WAYS ABOUT IT, “genetics, moisture, scalp health and nutrition are essential for robust hair. When choosing your products, look for ingredients including Jamaican black castor oil, shea butter, aloe vera and peppermint oil to help stimulate healthy hair growth,” advises Founder of Alfros Hair Growth Products Aldora Chindombe. THINGS TO AVOID “Sulfates may strip away moisture, leaving hair dry and lacking health, mineral oil creates buildup on the scalp, making it hard for products to penetrate it, parabens irritate the scalp, fade the hair’s natural colour and may lead to hairloss, and silicone builds hair over time, resulting in dryness and a dull appearance,” she says. ALDORA’S PERSONAL EXPERIENCE My hair grows quicker if I don’t touch it often and keep it in a protective style. Using ancient hair growth secrets has accelerated that growth. TWO MYTHS BUSTED Natural hair doesn’t grow. That’s a myth. It just takes longer for growth to show because of natural hair’s curl and coil pattern, which causes shrinkage. The length is still there. PROTECTIVE STYLES HELP YOUR HAIR GROW Not exactly. Protective styles can be a great way to give your hair a break from high-manipulation styling, and your hair will be able to grow without you having to pay it much attention. But the solution isn’t to put your hair in braids and forget about it either. We recommend consistently refreshing your hair with moisture, care and restyling, leaving protective styles in for no longer than two to four weeks. “My hair grows quicker if I don’t touch it often” COLLAGEN FOR HAIR GROWTH Founder of O Nutricia Lucy Tavares says, “Collagen is an amino acid often used to build body parts, especially hair, skin and nails, and is typically sourced from bovine chicken and fish. Hair follicles use these amino acids to produce keratin protein for hair growth and elasticity. It’s also an antioxidant that fights free radicals that can damage hair follicles and make your natural collagen susceptible to attack. As you age, your body is less efficient at producing collagen and replenishing cells in the dermis. So, supplementing your body with collagen may maintain a healthy dermis and prevent hair thinning. THE BENEFIT O Nutricia collagen improves your hair’s volume and natural shine. It has antioxidant properties that fight cell damage in the dermal layer of the skin. For more information, visit onutricia.co.za and alfros.co.za Subscribe Subscribe

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September 25, 2022
Shopping second-hand is more accessible than ever these days, but the sheer amount of choice out there can be daunting for those who are new to the world of pre-loved fashion . That’s why stylist Amy Bannerman – who has worked with the likes of Dua Lipa and Sophie Turner and was behind Love Island’s second-hand wardrobe this summer – has been sharing her insider tips to help guide others along the way.
“My love of second-hand shopping started very early on,” Amy tells Vogue. “My older brother Angus inspired me a lot growing up – he had a vintage ’80s leopard print coat which I endlessly coveted. I was always very sentimental with clothing, so I guess that a love of the meaning behind pieces was imbued at a young age.”
fashion Shopping guide: How to be feline fine with catsuits Read more As well as being an eBay obsessive, Amy can regularly be found trawling the rails at charity shops in search of hidden gems. “I love how in London you get such different things in different areas,” she says. “I live in Leytonstone [in east London] and often find quite eclectic things, but in west London you’re more likely to find luxury brands . I love travelling and I can’t see a charity shop I haven’t been to and pass it by – you just never know what you’re going to miss out on.”
Over the years, the stylist has accumulated a range of second-hand gems, from a pair of Prada loafers to some Marc Jacobs snakeskin boots. Below, see Amy’s expert tips for shopping second-hand.
Look for the pieces you’ve always wanted
For those who are just starting out, it helps to have specific pieces in mind. There’s a reason that the ’90s and Noughties are particularly popular right now – as those who grew up then can finally get their hands on the pieces they longed for when they were younger. “The feeling when you find the thing you’ve always lusted after is unbeatable,” Amy says. “No brand new purchase can do that.”
Go online for something specific
After drawing up your wishlist, it’s time to start tracking down those much-wanted items. “If you’re shopping for something very specific it’s best to shop online, as you can use filters to narrow down [your search],” Amy says, adding that online alerts help, too. “If you are [just] browsing, then go into stores,” the stylist continues. “This is when you’ll find all the pieces you didn’t know you needed.”
Be creative with your search terms
In order to land those bargains, it’s worth being creative with your search terms – you never know what you might find. “Try to spell things incorrectly – I have found some mega bargains this way,” Amy advises. “Use alternate search words. [For example], if something is diamanté someone else could potentially describe it as shiny, sparkly or sequined.”
Shop out of season
Another top tip is shopping out of season. “If you’re looking for something like a leopard print coat or a leather trench when it’s cold outside, everyone else will be too,” Amy says. “But if you shop when it’s summer, or typically out of season, fewer people will be looking and you’re likely to get a bargain. Check your wardrobe, or your iPhone photos, for things you felt like you were missing in the season gone by.”
Know your measurements
Finally, it’s important to know your measurements, particularly when it comes to buying online. “A lot of people list with measurements or are happy to measure if you ask them,” the stylist comments. “Go to a tailor and get measured properly – they will ask for a nominal fee. [When] buying vintage, I always size up by one or two sizes as the sizes don’t equate to modern sizing.”
This article wass originally published on Vogue UK .
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Shopping second-hand is more accessible than ever these days, but the sheer amount of choice out there can be daunting for those who are new to the world of pre-loved fashion. That’s why stylist Amy Bannerman – who has worked with the likes of Dua Lipa and Sophie Turner and was behind Love Island’s second-hand wardrobe this summer – has been sharing her insider tips to help guide others along the way. “My love of second-hand shopping started very early on,” Amy tells Vogue. “My older brother Angus inspired me a lot growing up – he had a vintage ’80s leopard print coat which I endlessly coveted. I was always very sentimental with clothing, so I guess that a love of the meaning behind pieces was imbued at a young age.” As well as being an eBay obsessive, Amy can regularly be found trawling the rails at charity shops in search of hidden gems. “I love how in London you get such different things in different areas,” she says. “I live in Leytonstone [in east London] and often find quite eclectic things, but in west London you’re more likely to find luxury brands. I love travelling and I can’t see a charity shop I haven’t been to and pass it by – you just never know what you’re going to miss out on.” Over the years, the stylist has accumulated a range of second-hand gems, from a pair of Prada loafers to some Marc Jacobs snakeskin boots. Below, see Amy’s expert tips for shopping second-hand. Look for the pieces you’ve always wanted For those who are just starting out, it helps to have specific pieces in mind. There’s a reason that the ’90s and Noughties are particularly popular right now – as those who grew up then can finally get their hands on the pieces they longed for when they were younger. “The feeling when you find the thing you’ve always lusted after is unbeatable,” Amy says. “No brand new purchase can do that.” Go online for something specific After drawing up your wishlist, it’s time to start tracking down those much-wanted items. “If you’re shopping for something very specific it’s best to shop online, as you can use filters to narrow down [your search],” Amy says, adding that online alerts help, too. “If you are [just] browsing, then go into stores,” the stylist continues. “This is when you’ll find all the pieces you didn’t know you needed.” Be creative with your search terms In order to land those bargains, it’s worth being creative with your search terms – you never know what you might find. “Try to spell things incorrectly – I have found some mega bargains this way,” Amy advises. “Use alternate search words. [For example], if something is diamanté someone else could potentially describe it as shiny, sparkly or sequined.” Shop out of season Another top tip is shopping out of season. “If you’re looking for something like a leopard print coat or a leather trench when it’s cold outside, everyone else will be too,” Amy says. “But if you shop when it’s summer, or typically out of season, fewer people will be looking and you’re likely to get a bargain. Check your wardrobe, or your iPhone photos, for things you felt like you were missing in the season gone by.” Know your measurements Finally, it’s important to know your measurements, particularly when it comes to buying online. “A lot of people list with measurements or are happy to measure if you ask them,” the stylist comments. “Go to a tailor and get measured properly – they will ask for a nominal fee. [When] buying vintage, I always size up by one or two sizes as the sizes don’t equate to modern sizing.” This article wass originally published on Vogue UK. Subscribe Subscribe

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khloe kardashian & tristan thompson

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The Good American mogul, shared the first glimpse of her and NBA Star’s adorable newborn baby on the season two premiere of The Kardashian, which dropped last night on Hulu. At the end of an emotional episode, Khloe is seen arriving at the hospital and was in the room as her surrogate gave birth to her and Tristan’s son.
“I am so grateful,” Khloe said in a confessional on the show. “It’s such a beautiful gift that we’re able to have.”
According to E, Khloe Kardashian confirmed on the 5th of August 2022, that she welcomed a newborn with Tristan Thompson via surrogacy.
“They are all truly ecstatic about welcoming a new baby,” the insider shared on the 8th of August 2022. “True is old enough that she can really help out and be involved with feedings and diaper changes. She is loving being a big sister,” insider explained.
Though Khloe and Tristan may have expanded their family, that does not mean the former couple is back on. After the news of Maralee Nichols’ pregnancy and Tristan Thompson fathering the child, the couple has been separated since then.
But Khloe is looking behind all that drama as she chooses to focus on her new born baby and her daughter True. and In a confessional, Khloe said of the happy moment:”Ever since December, it’s been this dark cloud looming over me. Every single day, I’ve been feeling depressed and sad, and now that my son is here, I get to move on, and I get to enjoy. It’s almost like I get to close that chapter and be done with this trauma and put it behind me,” Khloe said.

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A little girl got annoyed with a stranger who randomly touched her chin, making Mzansi proud in the process.
This little fighter was reportedly with her family got annoyed when a stranger touched her chin without her consent.
The little girl’s reaction left Mzansi in a media feeding frenzy after it being posted on Tik-Tok, where she found some new fans, with many prising her for being conscious about consent and vocalising it as young as she is which is extremely important for kids, as for most parents, that combination of easy confidence and clear boundaries is what parents dream for their daughters and sons. And this little girl had just that as her reaction in the clip shows just how astounded she is by the stranger touching her chin. The response shows that she has an early understanding of what consent is, which many peeps from South Africa saw and applauded.
According to The Guardian,”Teaching consent is an important part of educating a child on sexual health. It is, definitely, not an easy venture to talk about sex with kids. But, children should be taught from the earliest age. They should know and understand that their voices matter and they do have choices.”
The topic of consent has repeatedly appeared in the media with many women advocating for more bodily autonomy.
Although many prised her for exercising her own boundaries, many also pointed out that the little girl, was just too smart for her age.
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Taste trailblazers: iconic Laphroaig whisky pairings to try this Heritage Day
Sep 24, 2022 | 0 | The family invite has been sent on the WhatsApp group. The bag of charcoal is edging closer to the door. Your dad’s Springbok jersey is ready to go, and if you listen closely, you may just hear Shosholoza playing faintly in the background. Yes, South Africa, Heritage Day is upon us. While we are getting cheated out of a public holiday this year– a win by the Bokke is sure to take the edge off. Bearing this in mind, it’s probably a good idea to keep a bottle of Laphroaig’s 10-Year-Old on hand, you know, to celebrate (or settle the nerves). Heritage Day is the perfect occasion to combine celebrating the rich Scottish heritage of Laphroaig with the tantalising tastes of South Africa. While the rugged hills of Islay may be a world away from sunny South Africa, our two mighty nations share many passions – rugby, smoke, fire, alcoholic beverages, to name just a few. Get the best of both worlds, celebrating South Africa and Laphroaig’s flavourful heritages, with these perfect pairings. Play up the peat
Although he may enjoy this one, not Piet, as in Oom Piet. Peat, as in partially decayed organic matter. Peat can only be found in a few places around the globe – one of them being the Scottish isle of Islay, which is home to Laphroaig. Laphroaig’s iconic peaty-ness may be an acquired taste, and it’s certainly unforgettable. Try a glass of our 10-Year-Old, neat, if you dare. Pair it with a carefully curated cheese platter, complete with an assortment of local cheeses and cured meats – think biltong pieces and droëwors sticks. To get the most out of the peaty flavour, opt for cheeses that are on the stronger side and have smoky undertones. A pinch of salt South Africans love salt and so does Laphroaig. When you drink Laphroaig neat, you’ll be able to pick up on the hints of sea salt courtesy of the isle. While drinking whisky neat may be Oom Piet’s thing, a lot of people may prefer something a little less intense, and that’s okay. If you’re looking for a way to gently nudge these members of your circle into the wonderous world of peated whisky, a whisky cocktail may be just the trick. Why not serve a smoky penicillin? This delicious cocktail is the perfect match for our love of salt. Its medley of flavours will win over even the toughest of critics. To really blow them away, pair it with a simple, salty snack that takes a South African twist – buttered popcorn flavoured with biltong and peanut brittle. For the cocktail: You’ll need a small slice of ginger, peeled and roughly chopped; 1 heaped tbsp honey; 50ml Laphroaig 10-Year-Old; 25ml lemon juice, plus a lemon wedge to garnish; and ice. For the popcorn: You’ll need one microwave popcorn bag; 100 g peanut brittle; 100 g biltong sprinkle; and 2 tablespoons of butter, softened. Prepare the popcorn according to package instructions, then transfer it to a large mixing bowl. Using a fine grater, grate the peanut brittle and add it to the popcorn. Sprinkle over the biltong and toss with the butter until all the popcorn is coated with the peanut brittle, biltong and butter. Let’s get smoky Finally, and most importantly, there’s our shared love of smoke and fire. For South Africans, it’s the braai; for Laphroaig, it’s the drying of malted barley over a peat fire. This is what makes Laphroaig the perfect match for the smoky taste of meat prepared over an open flame. An old-fashioned capture of all the right notes for Heritage Day. Serve this alongside your favourite braai meat for a winning combination. For the cocktail: You’ll need 1 sugar cube; 1 teaspoon water; 1 dash bitters; 70ml Laphroaig 10-Year-Old; 1 lemon twist; ½ cup ice cubes (or as needed); 1 orange slice, for garnish; 1 maraschino cherry, for garnish. Muddle sugar cube, water, and bitters in an old-fashioned glass for 1 minute. Pour in whisky and stir for 1 minute. Squeeze the lemon twist over the glass and drop it in. Add in the ice cubes and garnish with the orange slice and maraschino cherry. Serve with a swizzle stick and enjoy. For the meat: We wouldn’t dare try to tell you how to braai your meat. That would be disrespectful.
Cheers to the rich heritage of the two nations and happy Heritage Day.
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Taste trailblazers: iconic Laphroaig whisky pairings to try this Heritage Day

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In the 1990s, particularly during South Africa’s early days of democracy, Kwaito music was the soundtrack of the township music scene, with places like Soweto and Thembisa serving as backdrops of the genre. However, in Bolobedu, the Disco Music artist Emma Teanet who released the first ever professionally recorded Khelobedu song together with Shakabundu Girls, a girl group formed by Penny Penny, reigned supreme. The latter released hit after hit with their Khelobedu song ‘Hono Mo Soo’ becoming an instant favourite with the masses, ushering the language into the broader music industry.
Unknowingly, Emma Teanet and Shakabundu Girls planted a seed. Aspiring musicians in Bolobedu embraced the two, while also taking advantage of the sudden interest in music delivered in Khelobedu, something Emma Teanet and Shakabundu Girls did very well throughout their respective careers. The latter’s other member, Candy Tsamandebele, soon released a solo project, Siki (five Cents), recorded solely in Khelobedu, followed by a national hit Tsa Mandabele with Oskido.
Tsa Mandebele was evidently the song that pushed the envelope for the Khelobedu language. Throughout the country, kids were imitating the choreography, which spawned another version of the song dedicated to children. The accompanying video of this version was a marvel to watch – the dancers featured a white child passionately reciting the lyrics and delivering their choreography with precision.
In 2018, with the uptake in social media usage and the launch of Spotify in South Africa, King Monada’s Malwedhe dominated social media feeds throughout the country, with the song’s lyrics spawning a challenge that ended as a news item on prominent news channels. A viral video trend emerged, with people filming themselves pretending to pass out while reciting the lyrics to the song. The virality of the challenge catapulted King Monada to national stardom in the same way it did Khelobedu music.
“Since our launch in 2018 in South Africa, we have seen artists cultivate a global community around their music. Music is a universal language, Master KG’s Jerusalema showed us that” says Phiona Okumu, Head of Music, Sub Saharan Africa, Spotify.
Khelobedu music’s influence in the music industry grew exponentially from there, with King Monada and Master KG dominating the music charts and the December holidays. This growth was bolstered by streaming platforms like Spotify, with artists gaining access to wider audiences and potential fanbases. Spotify has over 82 million songs on the platform, including a host of Khelobedu songs.
The Khelobedu language’s visibility nationally is almost non-existent. Khelobedu music, however, helps expose the unsung language to a different audience, both within South Africa and beyond its borders. The virality of a song often piques the curiosity of a global audience, especially in prominent music markets like the USA and UK. With the age of fast-growing technology, streaming platforms are a major vehicle for cultural objects like the Khelobedu language to thrive on national and international stages, thereby educating listeners about new languages and cultures they would likely never otherwise encounter.

Heritage Day: Khelobedu music exposes the unsung language to a different audience

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Heritage Day is one of the biggest celebrations on the South African calendar. Commemorated annually on September 24, it’s the day that enables us to celebrate our diverse cultures and traditions. We dress in our traditional garb, dance to the African beats, belt out ancestral songs and share a taste of African cuisine prepared with love. If you prefer dining out this Heritage Day, we’ve got a few suggestions for you below. Isizwe Chill Spot Located in the suburbs north of Johannesburg, Isizwe Chill Spot serves African cuisine to satisfy any shisanyama craving. The menu comprises mopani worms, mogodu, chicken feet, and braai meat. At this joint, food prices range from R70 to R180 for meals such as oxtail. Even after the celebrations you can still order your favourite traditional foods from the restaurant on Bolt Food. Grande Provence Heritage Wine Estate The name says it all. Signifying Franschhoek’s ingrained Huguenot heritage, the estate’s Manor house and Owners Cottage boast an extraordinary 325 years of history. Chef Anvor Fortuin has created a stripped-back menu that nods to South Africa’s heritage flavours with equal doses of sophistication and modernity. Spring’s offering includes the likes of confit karoo lamb neck or spring pea risotto, among others, which is best paired with a glass of one of the estate’s celebrated wines. Order a la carte or from the three or four-course pairing menu. View this post on Instagram Butcher Boys Grill Durban’s Butcher Boys Grill has partnered with Durbanville Hills Wine and Stella Artois this Heritage Month. The restaurant has a set menu for two which runs until the end of the month of September. The special includes starters, shisanyama platter, and a drink: a glass of Durbanville Hills wine, Stella beer, or a virgin cocktail. The set price is R695 for two people sharing. You can add a malva pudding for dessert for an additional R50. View this post on Instagram Jollof Cafe The well-known African restaurant prides itself on its selection of African cuisine, which consists of best sellers such as goat meat, jambalaya rice, fried yam, ewa agonyin, mackerel fish, and much more exciting food that fills the room with a tantalising aroma. Jollof Cafe is available at various locations in Johannesburg North. In terms of pricing, customers can expect to pay anything from R70 for jollof rice to R100 for pepper soup. Steenberg Farm In celebration of Heritage Month this September, guests visiting Steenberg Farm can delight in two authentic South African dishes, which through their aromatic flavours, give one an immersive experience into the region. With its opulent decor, spectacular views, world-class wines, and exceptional cuisine, this property promises guests an unforgettable experience. View this post on Instagram Steenberg is offering guests a selection of two Heritage Day spoils – an authentic and flavoursome pickled fish taco served with avo pulp, shallot and tomato salsa, curry oils and garlic aioli will be available at Bistro Sixteen82. As well as a decadent, creamy milk tart with a tamarind and pineapple ice cream, pineapple salsa, and rosemary-infused syrup served at Tryn Restaurant. Inspired by executive chef Kerry Klipin and her team, Klipin says two different taste sensations await guests visiting the respective restaurants this Heritage Month. This article was originally published on IOL. Subscribe Subscribe

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Sumptuous home of Sophie Ndaba Lichaba has been sold after she failed to service her bond.
Media reports say Sophie lost her house which she purchased over 2.2 million in October 2021.
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According to documents that were produced by the court proved that Sophie and her company ,Sophie trading, were cited as the first respondent , who obtained a 2.2 million home loan to purchase the house.
Sophie, was required to repay bond amount of R22 347 in monthly instalments for 240 months.
However, the former Generations actress failed to honour the contract and ended up in arrears that were over R80 000.
The bank sent several letters to Sophie with help of their lawyers, to inform Sophie that she has breached her contract.
She still failed to settle her arrears. The banking group then sent another letter to formally inform her that they were cancelling their agreement with her.
With Sophie refusing to respond, the Mercantile Bank asked the court to grant them an order to sell the house so that they can recoup their funds.
The star has still not said anything but this morning she wrote on her instagram story , ” Happy Friday, waesteba #Nothinglefttoloose? That’s me moving to my promiseland.”
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Sophie Ndaba Lichaba looses house

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Sindi and Ntando have been dating for 18 months. They’re in love and planning a future together. Sindi falls pregnant. The two are initially excited at the thought of being parents, but the strain of the pregnancy takes its toll on their relationship and Ntando finds love elsewhere. By the time baby Sbu is born, the two are no longer on speaking terms. However, Ntando is aware that as Sbu’s father, he has rights to access and spend time with his son. Sindi, on the other hand, is bitter and uncooperative.
This scenario may be a reality for many single parents out there. And unfortunately, when a child is involved, there is no real end to the relationship between parents. With young children, you have a lifelong “connection” to your ex.
So instead of holding grudges against one another, which will have a negative effect on everyone involved, a better option would be to put aside all past differences and learn to co-parent effectively – for the sake of the child. Easier said than done, you might think. But what is healthy co-parenting as opposed to unhealthy co-parenting?
HEALTHY CO-PARENTING
Putting the interests of your child first.Taking responsibility for your actions. Remember that your child did not ask to be born; you both made a decision to be parents, so act appropriately.Putting a parenting plan in place. This will eliminate the possibility of an amicable verbal agreement being forgotten, or words twisted to suit one of you.
UNHEALTHY CO-PARENTING
Using your child as bait or ammunition against one another.Not doing something that is right for the child because you think that it would benefit the other parent.Not spending enough time with your child, to nurture and bond with them; supporting your child financially is not enough.Burdening your child with situations that they cannot control, which could lead to helplessness and confusion.Expecting your child to cope with adult issues. Children deal with many “growing up” issues of their own; don’t burden them with more.
“The key to healthy co-parenting is simple – both parties need to be rational, not emotional,” advises Pearl Ramotsamai, a family and relationship counsellor for FAMSA.
But, as most people know, when a relationship turns sour because of a man’s infidelity, a woman’s emotions go on a roller-coaster ride. Happy to be rid of him for one minute, but crying and hysterical the next.
So, how can a woman work through her emotions to ensure that an ideal, healthy, co-parenting relationship exists? “Everything that involves emotions needs careful handling when it comes to a break-up,” says Pearl. “When a relationship is over, a woman goes through different stages of grief, at her own pace and in her own time. This differs for every woman. She needs to deal with feelings of anger, resentment, disappointment and hurt she may be experiencing. Only then can the two communicate and rationally plan a way forward regarding how to best co-parent their child.”
Being rational, however, is not easy. How do you plan to co-parent when you still feel anger and resentment towards your ex-partner? Pearl says you must not confuse issues; constantly remind yourself that this is about the well-being of your child. “Every decision you make, every outing you plan, every visit you allow dad, is in the best interest of your child. It’s not about you and your failed relationship, the grudges you bear or how you resent the new girlfriend.”
Besides emotional and rational issues, another area many women grapple with is how to separate their ex from his role as a father, to ensure that the child has both parents to equally contribute to his upbringing. This is difficult for women who have been hurt, especially if your ex left you for a “babe without baby”, and you’re struggling to accept that. “Any romantic feelings need to be dealt with as quickly as possible in order to not confuse issues in case of a misunderstanding concerning the child,” Pearl advises.
In some cases, it may even be a good idea to go for counselling. “Boundaries must be set, with both parents knowing their role. He is in your life to be a father to your child, not to be an occasional sex partner. He is not an ex with perks!” warns Pearl.
One thing for sure is that co-parenting does not come easy. It is also not about sharing custody when you feel like it. It’s about parents making decisions together, for the good of the child. More importantly, it requires two people to make sacrifices for their child, which is double the challenge, but twice as rewarding when it works.

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